How can parents promote the appreciation of diversity in the classroom?
The emotional home and the people who shape it: That's family. How different a family can be is not taken up enough in the classroom, also because many commercials, posters, unfortunately also some school books and our thinking is shaped by the long outdated image of mum, dad and child. The reality in 2020 paints a much more colourful picture of what family can look like. (Reality in the year 2020).
Imagine these two kids in a classroom. They show what family can look like.
Anton grows up with two mothers, his biological father is a friend of the family, who also takes the boy on outings now and then or takes him to his home for the weekend.
Esther's daddy is not her biological father. Her mother was pregnant by another man when she met her dad. Both raised the girl together. After the separation the girl stays with the adoptive father who has Custody of her.
Conclusion: Each family is special and unique and at the same time normal. Just because children grow up differently, as the examples illustrate, different life worlds must be taken up by the teacher in the classroom.
Language shapes thinking and is therefore the most important means that teachers have to convey acceptance and tolerance. When teachers stick to dusty textbooks with white mommy-daddy families, children like Esther and Anton feel that they do not belong or even feel excluded.
Teachers have the following opportunities to express their appreciation:
Here you can find book recommendations on the topic of "diverse families" for children and young people of all ages, for reading by yourself or for teaching.
Conclusion: Sensitive teaching appreciates your child and its history. If you have the feeling that the teacher does not take your child sufficiently into account or does not convey an appreciative image of diversity, you can talk to the teacher about your impressions.
In many federal states there is an hour called "social training" or "social learning" on the timetable. In the Berlin primary school it is part of the German lessons. Teachers should use this time for peace in the classroom. If disputes and insults are the order of the day, teachers have the possibility to call the Class Council. Children may then:
Here you can find more information and materials on how to conduct a class council.
You can point out this method to the teacher, because one of her tasks is to teach content, but also to educate. If this measure is not sufficient, it is helpful:
Conclusion: Wherever there are large numbers of people, there are also difficulties, arguments or discrimination. The classroom is a good place to deal with conflicts in a safe environment. But only if the teacher declares appreciation and tolerance to be the norm.
A classroom is also always a kind of "small world" in which social issues are depicted in a tiny frame. Children form a picture here of who they are allowed to be and how they are accepted.
Sensitive teachers have the task of protecting diversity here. They should convey that although life worlds differ, all family forms have their right to exist and are valuable. If teachers do not fulfil their role here sufficiently, you as a parent are called upon to seek dialogue